Yo,
So, before I begin blogging, I just want to say that I hope you guys watch the news or at least heard about the Ohio school shooting?
No?
Sad.
I don't quite understand, why someone would ever feel the need to open fire on innocent victims, for
seemingly, no apparent reason. Recently it seems, in the school system, there has been a sudden increase in violence, and particularly the kind that makes the news. Anyone remember
this news story?
I have never quite understood the motives behind such acts of violence. However, these stories have something in common: bullies.
It hasn't been publicized, but the kid who did the shooting was bullied. Alot. I do understand he was a "troubled teen", but did anyone stop to think, that maybe he went down that path because of his tormentors?
Did anyone stop to think that he did what he did because he was fed up with being bullied?
School systems themselves are to blame for such acts of violence. Because they lack enforcement on bullying policies, they have cases like this, where, the student is finally fed up, and explodes and does something rash.
It is absolutely ridiculous. Kids are bullied everyday, and their voices are never heard, nor do schools choose to stand up and do anything about it.
Don't get me wrong, I am not defending the kid, but I do believe that this event could have easily been prevented had an adult intervened in the situation(s) when necessarily.
Bullies are some of the saddest people on earth, because they project their self-hatred onto others, in order to see the pain manifest. It is unfortunate, however, that bullies may also come from troubled backgrounds, and no one lends hands to save them.
I was bullied for almost my entire school career, simply because of the color of my skin, and my actions.
I dressed well, went to school, got good grades.
I didn't act "black"
I remember one class my freshman year, geometry, I was tormented everyday by older students because of the way I dressed. The teacher stood silent, the entire trimester.
Said not one word in defense, or to keep them quiet.
I was crushed.
In the end, I must say, that I do believe it made me a stronger person, but not without me suffering through depression for most of my High School career and always second guessing myself. I was a very sad person.
And not to brag on myself, but I am a rare case of a person who can control those emotions, and rather inflict them on another person, I inflicted them upon myself in order to keep from hurting others.
In much more common cases, the bullied will lash out at others, repeating the cycle of violence.
My thing is, if you simply don't like someone, don't be near them, or talk about them at all.
I mean, obviously if you talk about them, they are in your head, and you are already letting them win.
Just let it be.
Treat others as you wish to be treated, and simply avoid those that cause you problems.
Simple as that.
That is simply my thoughts for today guys..
Dueces,
Th4T_1_GuY